I am 17 and soooo bored with my relationship. He plays Nintendo and goes online. That's his life. If Iask him if he wants do something else he doesn't then he gives me a hard time for not coming up with ideas. He doesn't want to be around my family, I'm the one who drives 18 minutes everyday to see him. I am so sick of us. I love him and don't want to break up.

Dear Bored,

Holding onto something that is gone may not be a good idea. If he is truly not paying any attention to you and is treating you like this, I have to think it is a good idea to take some time apart. If nothing else, it will give you both time to think about your relationship and whether or not you two should be together.

If you don't want to break up with him, sit down with him and tell him that your relationship isn't one sided and that if he wants to continue with you, he needs to become more of a part of your relationship. Don't torture yourself over a relationship that doesn't have a spark in it!

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