Studies demonstrate that couples who have been dating for a while may treat one another less politely than they would a perfect stranger. Some of this may be attributed a greater comfortability level, however it also reveals that common courtesy may not be all that common in couples!

Many women complain that "chivalry" is dead. It is not that they don’t want independence, but it is nice to be shown respect and deference. You can improve the quality of dating your relationship by implementing a few "old-fashioned" values.

Open Sesame

With a resurgence of old-fashioned values, many of the old customs are springing back into popularity. Many of these customs focus manners that men should display during dates. Even the most independent and liberated woman appreciates having the door opened for her, or chair pulled out for her to be seated. These simple acts show courtesy and respect.

To Pay or Not to Pay?

A question always comes up who should pay on a date. Being old-fashioned, and dating a college student, I am inclined towards the man paying on a date. Not necessarily every date, but a large majority of them. If you are beginning in a relationship, I recommend assuming you will pay, most women I have dated don't expect to pay and most aren't prepared to.

After the Date

At the completion of the date, most women appreciate being escorted to their door. This allows them to feel secure and also gives a natural end to the date.

Many men wonder, when is it appropriate to kiss their date goodnight? Kissing displays not only attraction, but also intimacy and trust. The first date or two generally don't lead to this level of intimacy. My recommendation would be to wait until both of you are comfortable and most of all: don't rush things. Rushing may result in friction later in the relationship. Allowing your relationship to evolve naturally has its advantages.

The days of knights in shining armor are gone, but the shine doesn’t have to fade away. Men can set the tone for courtesy in the relationship. These old-fashioned values communicate the respect and care of which all women (and men for that matter) are worthy and enhance your dating relationship.

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