I have taken a large jar with a lid and decorated it with "Good Job" "Excellent" "I love You" and various "praising stickers" and a big bow on top. I filled the jar with little notes that contain any special quality about my husband, anything he does to make me feel loved, special or needed.......Just about anything to make him feel special and to draw attention to his special qualities. He is allowed to take one a day from the jar as he is on his way out to work. He said he looks forward to reading one each morning and it makes him feel very special. (Ruth Ann)