take a hole week do a bunch of little things for him or her ex;roses sent to his/her work, take her out for diner, right poems,love notes for your partner, do alot of little surprises like bring her food for his/her lunch break: this is especialy great if you top it off on a saturday by picking him/her up in a limo,take them to dinner and then a movie then have the driver take you to a lucritive place and make love to each other in the limo. then go home yours or theres and just kuddle no more sex that night.