Arrange to go on a hiking trip to Cape Point (Easy if you live in South Africa) Here the mighty Atlantic and Indian Oceans meet. Set up a video camera to film you in front of these two oceans and explain how amazing it is that they exist together and yet also independently strong and different and how stunning nature and therefore life is. At this point drop on your knees and propose that you would like to have the same relationship with her - together, for ever.